1: In everything she says she must know what she is saying and why.
2: She must not be afraid to be looked down upon by the world if she knows what she is doing is right.
1 Peter 3:14
3: When she is interacting with those of the opposite gender she should be reserved. Friendly but not flirtatious. Kind but not showing any particular attention.
1 Timothy 5:1-2
4: The music she listens to, the movies she watches, and the books she reads should have some purpose beyond keeping her entertained.
5: She should prepare herself in every way to be a mother and wife, both in the skills she undertakes to learn, and in the guarding of her heart.
6: When children are the occupants of her attention she should be good natured, patient, and happy. She should follow their whims, play the games they want to play, and do the things they want to do. Even if they tire her, she must not tire them.
7: When she is alone she must turn her thoughts to God. She must strive to be the young lady who is pleasing in the sight of the Lord. There is no greater goal than this.